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3/23/2018 0 Comments

Mastering the Business of Yoga w/ Amanda Kingsmith

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I had the absolute pleasure of talking about what it means to embody Yoga, Teach Kids and lead Successful Retreats with the amazing Amanda Kingsmith.

Her podcast M.B.Om offers Yoga professionals a real look behind the scenes into the business aspect of the Yoga industry.

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3/22/2018 0 Comments

Join up the Dots w/ David Ralph

 I had a wonderful time discussing Business, Niches, Following your passion, entrepreneurship and so much more with the fantastic David Ralph on the "Join up the Dots" Podcast. Take a listen below:
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3/22/2018 0 Comments

Laughter Yoga...is REAL!!

by Awilda Rivera

Originally published in Sept. 2016 In Aquarius Magazine for her long running column "Under The Bodhi Tree" under the heading 'Yoga and Change'

Have you laughed recently?  Laughter is important and essential to our health. However, we find our selves living in uncertain times full of contention and disharmony.  Many are calling for a return to compassion and understanding, I also believe we need to promote Joy. Laughter Yoga is one way to increase your Joy quotient immediately. Believe it or not this in not a new age Western practice but an Eastern Original.
 
Laughter Yoga is real. It’s the practice of combining Laughter Sounds, Mudras (hand postures) and in some cases light asana. Studies examining the effectiveness of laughter yoga in the work place found that when employees participated in laughter yoga they experienced a 6% reduction in stress level, a 27% decrease in negative feelings and a 17% increase in positive feelings. [1] Those percentages indicate significant & measurable changes.
 
I have experienced the benefits of laughter yoga personally. My younger students LOVE it when I incorporate laughter yoga poses into their classes.  Not surprisingly, adults also enjoy laughter yoga.  Adults often look surprised at their level of enjoyment once they let themselves surrender to the activity.
 
Laughter is said to hyper oxygenate the brain and release twice as much carbon dioxide as regular respiration. Life is tough, we should laugh as much as we possibly can.  Any exercise that promotes more stress reduction, decreased negative emotional & increased positive feelings is at least worth trying once.
 
Of course, before I send you off to dive into this practice there are a few things I need to tell you.  When you begin to practice laughter yoga you are actively unblocking energy channels and performing what can be categorized as an energetic  cleanse. When we endeavor to cleanse our selves energetically it can result in all manner of emotions coming to the surface that have been stuck in our energy channels for an unidentified extent of time. As a result, people may be moved to tears after a laughter yoga session, because the body is getting rid of the heavy energies to make room for the  lighter energies ushered in through your laughter yoga practice.  Its completely normal, embrace the release and lean into the lighter energy.
 
Interested in trying some laughter yoga yourself? Here are 3 laughter yoga exercises from Laughter Online University[2] that are guaranteed to get you going:
 
1.  Age Laughter: Imagine how your laugh would sound when you are double your current age; half of your current age; 10/20/30 years older; ten years younger; as a child; as an infant; 95 / 5.
 
2.  Bored Laughter: Fake it until you make it (sic).


3. Animal Laughter: donkey; pig snorts; dog woofs; Cheshire cat caterwauls; hoot owls; chimpanzees; gorillas
 
Give it a try and see what happens. You may enjoy it more than you expect. If you need help letting go, do the exercise with someone under 10. Kids are great at laughter yoga.
 
Until Next time Yogis….



Footnotes:
[1] http://laughteryoga.org/laughteryoga-in-business/

[2] http://www.laughteronlineuniversity.com/150-laughter-exercises/

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3/8/2018 0 Comments

A Closer Look: Contentment

by Awilda Rivera

Originally published in Jun. 2016 In Aquarius Magazine for her long running column "Under The Bodhi Tree"

For many Yoga consists of going to a studio to move mindfully, taking time to just be on the mat, in the moment without judgment. For some there is no interest in intellectualizing Yoga through study of its ancient philosophies or the methods at its core. Yet for others, there can be no mindful movement without also engaging in a dedicated study of ancient Yogic philosophies.  You might wonder: Can the person who simply enjoys doing yoga asana have a complete yoga practice without studying its ancient philosophical roots?
 
The quick answer is: Yes! Yoga does not discriminate; it is for everyone. Each person comes to Yoga looking for something different, and ultimately finds what they need. There is no right or wrong way to approach it. The truth is that the person who comes to yoga to move mindfully & simply be is experientially learning Yogic philosophy.  The root of the word Yoga is Yug, it means to yoke together as one. Yoga is about creating a complete unity of mind, body & spirit that organically produces contentment.
 
In yoga philosophy there are ten (10) fundamental principles that help to inform one’s interactions both with the world[1] and with themselves[2].  Contentment is one of the principles that relates to how you interact with yourself.[3] Contentment is categorized by ones ability to be present in the moment without judgment of yourself or others, while detached from past or future outcomes.
 
People find contentment through their yoga practice in many ways. Some people find contentment in just being on the mat doing yoga, others find contentment through the combination of movement and deeper study of Self through the lens of Yoga[4].  Ultimately regardless of the category you are in, both groups can produce individual who find contentment easier to attain off of the mat because of the contentment they have cultivated on the mat.
 
When I first began practicing Yoga I was contented to simply be on my mat breathing, present in the moment.  However, I was unable to hold onto that contentment once outside the studio. As soon as I got into the hallway or into my car all my responsibilities and cares would resurface, rushing to the forefront of my mind. I would allow myself to be overwhelmed with frustration, until I decided that  if I allowed myself to be ok with being able to reach a state of clam during the class, then I could be content.
 
 After almost a year, I wanted to understand more of the why of Yoga so I decided to read BKS Iyengar’s  “Tree of Yoga”.  As I read, I started to feel more energetically connected to the physical movements and the moments of solace I was finding on the mat during class. As I read, the internal desire to take the contentment I found on the mat into the world began to grow. I realized I didn’t have to limit my contentment to confines of a studio or moment during class, I could be contentment whenever I wanted for whatever reason I wanted.  I began to proactively apply the same ideas of balance, breath, and contentment to everyday situations that would have otherwise lead to anxiety or anger. Initially it was extremely challenging to breathe through a moment of anger, hold my perspective in a positive space and take action from a place of calm compassion. However, after a lot of practice it has become easier, while I am not perfect I am able to more easily identify: why I am, when I became, and how long I feel like remaining upset or anxious.  
 
Accidentally cultivating contentment through Yoga has only had a beneficial effect on my life. Becoming aware of cultivating contentment has resulted in the realization that contentment begins within me. Contentment directly relates to your perspective, it does not require that you be complacent or simply accept life passively but it demands an awareness of self and individual choice. Therefore, whether you study the philosophy or simply like to show up to move mindfully, as long as you are allowing yourself to be present in the moment without judgment of yourself or others, while detached from past or future outcomes, then you will experience a complete yoga practice.  Not sure what the end goal of all this contentment is? Pantajali educates us that “[f]rom Contentment one gains Supreme Happiness.” [5]  Not sure you believe him? Take a crack at it over the next month and see if your happiness quotient increases.
 
 
 
 


[1] Yamas – Set of 5 priniciples that  help to dictate how one should interact with the world

[2] NiYama – set of 5 priniciples that help to dictate how one should treat themselves

[3] Santosha in Sanskrit

[4] Svadhaya – the yogic principle of Self Study encourages that one utilize yoga as an opportunity to dive deep within to learn more about yourself

[5] Yoga Sutras of Pantajali: As interpreted by Makunda Stiles; Sutra II, 42; p. 27

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2/22/2018 0 Comments

Mindfulness 101

by Awilda Rivera

Originally published in Dec. 2017 In Aquarius Magazine for her long running column "Under The Bodhi Tree"

The Yoga-fication of the West has brought our collective attention to several other Eastern practices that are believed to greatly enhance the quality of one’s daily life. One such practice & concept is that of Mindfulness, which has gained significant traction over the last 2 decades.  There are a plethora of books, courses, workshops and websites dedicated to encouraging mindfulness, but what is it?
 
Mindfulness is the experience of: (1) being present in the moment while (2) having an acute awareness of your environment, stimuli, and behavior coupled with   (3) an appreciation of what is happening in the moment.
 
If you are freaking out…I understand this can be a lot to process. We live in fast paced society where this kind of presence of mind would mean we would have to focus on one thing at a time. If you are someone who prides yourself on multitasking Mindfulness can be a very challenging idea.
 
Thankfully mindfulness can be experienced in a moment as normal as eating a Tangerine. The world renowned teacher Thich Nhat Hanh summarizes an experience he had with a friend who sat thinking about an impending project while  quickly eating a Tangerine. Thich recalls, “He was hardly aware he was eating a tangerine…It was as if he hadn’t been eating the tangerine at all.”[1] Thich goes on to suggest that if we are moving so quickly that we are failing to be present enough to be aware of what we are currently doing, then are we doing anything at all? 
 
Think about it, how many times have you thought to yourself: “where did the month go? week, year, day?”  During those periods of time where you living mindfully? Savoring each moment like the section of the tangerine OR were you going through the motions mindlessly, simply existing rather than living?
 
Mindfulness is the awareness that ultimately allows us to truly live each day to the fullest. When we are present for each moment, with out judgment, appreciating the reality of it then we can rejoice in the beauty of our human experience.  It may be difficult to conceptualize Mindfulness, but once you begin to practice Mindfulness it becomes easy to both incorporate that presence of mind into everything you do & identify when you are living mindlessly.
 
We all have to start somewhere. If you are completely new to the idea of mindfulness or if you have had some issues really digging in, here are some easily accessible ways to kick start your practice:

  1. Breathing --  there is an exercise called sama vata pranayama. It means equal length breath. You sit comfortably in a chair or on the floor, breathing through the nostrils, concentrating your attention on your breath.  You silently count as you inhale, and repeat as you exhale. The goal is to work towards the same pressure, speed and length of breath on the inhale & exhale.  Connecting with your breath in this manner will make it easier for you to connect with your breathing when you are out in the world experiencing stress or overstimulation. Refocusing on your breath is always an excellent way to bring yourself back to the present moment with the thought – “I am here now, breathing in & out.”

  2. Enjoy Every Bite ­ - we all have to eat.  At your next meal: silence your phone, turn it screen down on the table, take a moment to acknowledge the nourishment you are about to consume, then slowly eat the meal. Take medium sized bites and be present to savor each one. Put your utensil down in between bites. Maybe close your eyes and notice if you can taste your food more vividly.  Eating mindfully allows us to reconnect with what nourishes us literally and figuratively. However, we are often rushing through our meals while we text, email, or plan for the next thing we have to do. The state of mind we are in & manner in which we eat can affect our digestion.  Therefore taking time to not only focus on what we are eating but to enjoy and rejoice in it is an act of mindfulness.  
 
 
The Miracle of Mindfulness  by Thich Nhat Hanh, it is full of wonderful examples of how to become more present. All of his books are great! Other fantastic resources for cultivating mindfulness are the works of Pema Chodron, and His Holiness The Dali Lama.  While Meditation is not mindfulness, a healthy meditation practice grounded in the things that challenge you can also help you become more mindful.  Go forward, unafraid to be present, embrace the moment and enjoy the reality of what is right now.
 
Until next time….


[1] Hanh, Thich Nhat - The miracle of Mindfulness, p. 5

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2/8/2018 0 Comments

A Closer Look:  Niyamas

by Awilda Rivera

Originally published in 2016 In Aquarius Magazine for her long running column "Under The Bodhi Tree" under the heading 'Niyamas'

nYoga is not just about putting your legs behind your head.  The practice of yoga is steeped in ancient philosophies that are supposed to help to inform the intent & focus of the student. In order to completely understand this, one must first accept that the tree of Yoga has 8 limbs, of which Asana is one. The other 7 limbs are equally if not more important than Asana, even though the physical practice seems to get the most attention in the west.
 
The Trunk of the tree is the Niyamas. The Niyamas provide the yogi a rubric for dealing with herself. The roots of the tree of Yoga are the Yamas. The Yamas give guidance about how to interact with the world around us.  This piece aims to focus on the NiYamas.
 
In this hectic, busy and uncertain world its is becoming clear that the only thing in our control is ourselves. The Niyama’s are an ancient yet elegant check list that keep us grounded and focused on being our best selves at all times. These “observances” highlight the 5 areas that ancient yoga philosophers believed were of utmost importance.
 
The Niyamas are:  Saucha (purification), Samtosa (Contentment), Tapas (asceticism),  Svadhyaya (Self-Study), Ishvara Prandihana (devotion)
 
Saucha, often translated as clealiness, isn’t just about keeping your home clean but also the purity of your being. Keeping selves clean refers to the actions required to keep our bodies healthy, so that we have both fully functioning organs and a clear mind. [1]  Keeping the body clean has become increasingly easier as general awareness has increase about our food sources and food processing practices. However, keeping the Mind clear has become increasingly more difficult as technology has evolved resulting in a relentless barrage of cell phone notifications and updates.   Humans are so over stimulated by their technological devices that finding a quiet moment to still the mind and get clear their mind is incredibly challenging for most.
 
Samtosa, simply stated means contentment. The idea that one should be satisfied and happy with what they have, in other words loving what is rather than despairing about what could be.  “From contentment one gains Supreme Happiness.”[2]  (Sutra of Patanjali - II.42)  Contentment is a real issue in the developed world, especially when folks are focused on trying to catch up with Instagram Influencers flashing Stacks of cash on the beach and working non-stop towards a goal of either corporate dominance or entrepreneurial stardom.  Samtosa is a straight forward yet complex idea that is intended to cover all aspects of your life.  In other words, “it is about ourselves – what we have and how we feel about what God has given us.”[3] Don’t get caught up on the G-word, the point is that if we are able to focus on being appreciative and grateful for what the Universe has provided and what we have done to get to the present moment, then we will be more able to experience joy for what is in each moment.
 
Tapa also known as self-discipline, refers predominately to the business staying physically fit. Cultivating clean eating habits, healthy breathing patterns, aligned body posture, & moderating our nutrient intake are all apart of Tapas. Fortunately in our body conscious world this is not such a big ask. However, many still struggle with self-discipline when it comes to follow through. It is one thing to think of a new course of action, it is quite another thing for to take a take a new course of action and see that plan through to completion.  However having a healthy self-awareness is essential to keeping one honest.  When a person begins to lack self-discipline, she is the only on that knows it and she is only one that can take the action to regain that discipline. Tapas is ultimately about follow through, commitment & knowing yourself well enough to keep yourself accountable.
 
Svadhyaya means Self Study.  The Sutra’s say “From self-study comes communion with ones personal diety.” (Sutra II.44)[4]   Studying yourself is a necessary pursuit.  Knowledge of self comes from the pursuit of mental, physical & spiritual growth. The practice of Yoga promotes that in a multitude of ways, the philosophy of Svadhyaya makes it clear that the purpose of Yoga is to help you turn the mirror on YOURSELF so that you can become deeply connected with your truth – whatever that may be.  The bonus is effect of deep, sincere Self-Study is a more salient connection with the Divine. For some the Divine is represented by a particular Religious figure, for others it is seen in the elegance of science, yet others believe in some greater disembodied energetic force (i.e. The Universe). Regardless of what you believe, digging in deep and daring to study yourself will inevitably open a path for you to feel oneness with forces greater than yourself.
 
Isvaraprandihana is a tricky one. While many translate this as “devotion to God” other texts provide us with an explanation that more truly captures the secular yet spiritual nature of Yoga.  BKS Iyengar helps us to understand that Devotion and Surrender are at the core of this concept.[5] The idea is to be very intentional with your acts in such that you are both comfortably detached from the need to have your behavior reciprocated and  are also able to separate yourself from your acts. Growing in your selflessness through your acts allows you to experience your humanity and spiritual oneness. The Devotion and detachment from the reciprocation lead to a complete selfless surrender that ultimately reinforces your Divine Connection.
 
With a combination of complexity and practical simplicity, the Niyamas offer us an incredible guideline for taking care of not only our physical body, but also our mind and spirit. The Niyamas help us to understand that our actions must be guided by:  a deep understanding and commitment to ourselves, a sense of joy in our current circumstance, and an acceptance of our Divine connection.  Its almost a cheat sheet to healthy, happy, drama free living!!!
 
Until Next time……
 


[1] Heart of Yoga, TKV Descihachar (p. 101)

[2] Yoga Sutras Of Pantajali: As Interpreted by Mukunda Stiles (p.27)

[3] Heart of Yoga, TKV Descihachar (p. 101)

[4] Yoga Sutras Of Pantajali: As Interpreted by Mukunda Stiles (p.28)

[5] The Tree of Yoga, BKS Iyengar (p.51)

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12/22/2017 0 Comments

Spirituality & Setting yourself up for Success...

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You can't manifest something if you believe in nothing....

The two podcast I share below help you to better understand the relationship between Spirituality & Success.

The first interview is with Victoria Lynn Weston of AYRIAL TALK TIME. We cover my personal Spirituality Story. Listen to me discuss what it was like to grow up in a household of Shaman, Healers and Psychics, AND how that shaped my business today.

The Second Interview, with Alison Beierlein of LICENSE TO RECIEVE, we discuss Setting yourself up for Success by following your Intuition, the phases of Success & the behind the scenes of  overnight success. Listen HERE.

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12/20/2017 0 Comments

Let's get down to Business...

There is so much to do when thinking about taking your professional career to the next level. At times the challenges can be numerous and it can feel like we are never going to accomplish our desired outcome.

HOWEVER - the truth is that every single Successful person you see has at one time been a beginner,  taken on incredible odds, and faced self doubt.  I had the pleasure of tackling this topics as a guest on a few podcasts over the last year.

First up --

Check out my interview with Bryan Teare on his podcast - The Quarterlife Comeback. Listen to us discuss ---
Becoming you own Boss, Using small tasks to accomplish big Goals, Healthy Boundaries & Avoidable Pitfalls:

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NEXT UP....

When we face incredibly challenging obstacles - like in my case failing the Bar by a few points after working towards being a lawyer  my entire life.... "HOW DO WE KEEP GOING & NEVER EVER GIVE UP???"

Listen to Carol Graham & I discuss just that on her amazing podcast:
NEVER EVER GIVE UP HOPE Podcast

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Finally....

What are the Key Traits of Successful Entrepreneurs & Career Professionals? What are some things that set them apart from the rest?

I had the pleasure of sitting down with Diana Gladney of the Passion 2 Business Podcast to answer those questions in detail.

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12/13/2017 0 Comments

Location Independence & Investing in You.....

The two questions I get asked most often are (1) "How did you do make the change from law to Entrepreneurship?"  and (2) "How does Investing in yourself help your business?"

GREAT NEWS!! I was interviewed on these very topics a couple months ago for two awesome podcasts: Nomad Together &  Jar of Success.

The first interview I am sharing covers location independence.

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The Second interview tackles the age old questions: "Why should I invest in me?", "How will investing in my help me professionally? Personally?" 
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12/1/2017 0 Comments

Hate it! Meditate on it....

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Mindfulness is about confronting the things that make you uncomfortable long enough for you to be able to let them go. There is nothing good or bad just your perception & reaction to what is.

Read my latest guest post on SIVANA EAST on this very topic. Click the here.



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11/30/2017 0 Comments

Yoga at Work: A look at how Corporations embrace wellness

by Awilda Rivera

originally published February 2017 in Aquarius Magazine

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Corporations are no longer satisfied with being the best in their industry, or the marketplace. The new end game is “Being the best place to work”. Making a place the “best” can include all manner of things from LinkedIn’s free gourmet cafeteria to Google’s internal coaching program. However, employers have started to realize that there is a correlation between their workforce’s level of happiness and the success of their company.
 
Mindfulness practices have emerged as one of the focal points of a new wave of corporate employee benefit initiatives.  A 2015 study conducted by  the University of Warwick's Centre for Competitive Advantage in the Global Economy shows that happy employees are 12% more productive.[1] Consequently in their search for the magic solution to increase happiness in the workforce, these companies discovered that offering Yoga during office hours could achieve their intended objective.
Yoga gives employees an opportunity to quiet their minds, move their bodies and build a foundation for mindfulness while being in the environment where they spend most of their waking hours, Work.
 
Yoga in the workplace has become popular over the last 3-4 years with top-level companies like Apple, McKinsey & Co., HBO, & Proctor and Gamble offering yoga on site during working hours. [2] It is actually quiet easy to offer Yoga in the work place because minimal equipment is needed. All that is required is a large meeting area, cleared of all furniture and a Yoga Alliance certified instructor. Employees can be encouraged to bring their own mats or the company can provide them.
 
Of course, the style of yoga being taught during the workday needs match the needs of the employees. In Atlanta, Home Depot offers Yoga on site during working hours to their employees through their company gym.  The style of yoga taught there is rather rigorous because that is what the employees want, and Home Depot has showers on site to provide their workforce with an opportunity to bathe after such a rigorous practice.  In alternative, at a company that does not possess shower facilities on site a lower impact practice may be more appropriate.
 
A gentle restorative yoga practice would be ideal for companies where there is a call center on site,  have a focus on high volume business transactions, that deal with a lot of time sensitive negotiations, or have stringent project deadlines. A passive yoga practice  would provide a welcome shift from the high level of intensity required by the job. Ultimately, happier employees are more productive employees. Happy employees are less likely to leave their company, and if they do leave they are more likely to sing the praises of their former employer.  For businesses who depend on a their employees being sharp to succeed, Yoga may be the secret weapon for success in this new era of corporate evolution.

**If you are interested in bringing Yoga to your company please feel free to contact me directly at  [email protected]
 
 

[1] http://fortune.com/2015/10/29/happy-productivity-work/

[2] http://www.onlinemba.com/blog/10-big-companies-that-promote-employee-meditation/


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11/16/2017 0 Comments

Bhakti Yoga: The yoga of Love & Devotion

by Awilda Rivera

originally published in Aquarius Magazine in 2016

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For the last 12 months, we have explored questions around the practice, purpose and benefits of Yoga Asana. We have taken time to explore some of the philosophical underpinnings of this historically rich tradition; and we have also discussed how to identify & begin a physical yoga practice that resonates with your soul.  Yet, we have only begun to scatch the surface.  All we have discussed relate primarily to the physical practice of Yoga Asana and all that comes with it.
 
The question remains: Can Yoga exist off the Mat, with out Asana being involved?
Yes! There are several types of Yoga that exist. As westerners we are most commonly acquainted with  Hatha & Raja Yoga[1].  Hatha & Raja Yoga contain an essential element of physicality that is very attractive to busy people in the west who are looking to exercise their body in an intentional. It is through this intentional exercise that they hope to achieve balance, increased self-awareness, and ideally inner peace – also know as enlightenment.
 
Bahkti Yoga exists devoid of required physicality. It is known as: The Yoga of Love, The Yoga of Devotion, The Yoga of Devotion To God.  Ultimately, this is the Yoga of Surrender to the Divine.  There is neither a Diety in particular to whom you must devote yourself, nor one idea; however, in order to surrender completely you must devote yourself to something greater than yourself.  The devotion to something greater need not take a shape or personage, but it can be simply embracing the Divine Love and connection we all share OR  the Beauty of Nature all around us in every living thing.
 
In a modern western world, it is understandable that we modify the application of the ancient principles of Bahkti Yoga to fit our realistic needs. Therefore you many not feel called to sing Kirtan,  chant mantras every morning, or set an altar with deities to whom you pray directly… and that’s OK!  There are may ways you can tap into the spirit of Bahkti Yoga such as: volunteering, giving food to the homeless, dedicating the energy your physical Yoga practice to someone who is in need, interacting with all around you from a place of unconditional love & non-judgment, or immersing yourself in nature so that you can appreciate the beauty of the world around you.
 
Bahkti Yoga is not a RELIGION. It is just another avenue available to those who are looking to connect with the Divine through a unity with the world around them. While I would certainly encourage you all to experience a Kirtan performance and research mantras, I understand that for some of you that will not resonate. The great news is that in this brave new world, we have the opportunity to take the powerful ideas of Bahkti Yoga: Love – Devotion – Connection with the Divine, and find ways in our everyday lives to organically engage in this fulfilling and empowering practice. How will you bring a little Bhakti Yoga into your life?
Until next time…. Namaste!! 


[1] You may be unfamiliar with Raja Yoga, however it is the Original Form of classical Yoga from which 90% of yoga lineages found in west were derived. It is also known as the ‘8 limbed path’ of Yoga.  Hatha Yoga is more commonly known as ‘Sun Moon’ Yoga as is focused on using the body as a vehicle to transform the conscious of an individual.


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11/7/2017 0 Comments

The Importance of Clarity of Vision.....

by Awilda Rivera

A deeper dive into one of the most fundamental Success Tips. These tips are shared regularly in the Success Suite - a 100% free closed facebook group lead by me.  Interested in more tips and advice around how to use them? Join the Success Suite today!

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Whats does “Success” mean to you? Are you already successful?  Are there things you still wish to achieve? More importantly, are you clear on your Vision of Success – not only long-term but in the immediate future?

The thought of all the work associated with getting clear on your vision may scare you, it may even make you uncomfortable. However, having Clarity of Vision is essential to your success.
 
Let me be clear. I don’t mean that your vision is static or etched in stone. Your Vision can be flexible, it will change and evolve over time. The clarity I am referring to relates to your definition, direction, desire & intent.
 
Success is a big idea. It is very easy to confuse success with the practice of relentlessly striving for more.  In order for you to strive for success you must define success for yourself.  However, you must be willingly to bravely ask yourself the hard questions:

  • what makes my heart sing?
  • what are the things I want to accomplish as a part of my legacy?
  • what impact do I want to make on my friend, family? on the world?
  • When do I feel happiest?
  • What proceeds my happy moments?  Sad moment?
  • What scares me?
  • What Stresses you me?
  • What do I love to do?
 
The answers you get to these questions will help to inform your definition of Success.  Once you have an idea of what Success means to you, you can then start to clarify what the reality of Success would look like for you in the short & long term.
 
It may be easier for you to envision the longterm Success – a reality comfortably divorced from your present because so much must be done before you can get there.  While it is good to dream big, you must also ground yourself in what the reality of now.  The Big Dream (long term vision) helps you get clear on your intention:
 
           Ex 1:  I want to run a 7 figure business with international distribution and 5-7 employees by 2019.  
 
In the example above, the intent to is run a profitable business that reaches 7 figures by 2019, and concurrently expand the company to 5-7 employees in an effort to meet the potential growing needs of that business.
 
The short term vision of Success is critically important. It helps you to begin to identify the little wins that are necessary to achieve your Big Dream.  Understanding the Little Wins (short term vision) help you to find the direction that will lead you more easily to your BIG DREAM (long term vision) :
 
         Ex. 2: I want to become a trusted expert in my industry, building relationships with influences and brands   
         that can grow my exposure. As I build credibility, I want to release content that support my expert status    
         and draws more people to my brand who wish to engage with brand at a high level through product and   
         services purchases.  

 
 
In example 2, The Little Wins (short term)  direction would be to tackle projects that would increase exposure, build brand credibility and position you as an expert. Direction is critical because in order to be able to adjust you have to know where you were originally headed. One of the biggest challenges for Entrepreneurs and Professionals focused on growth is a lack of focused effort.  When you are trying so many different approaches at once, it will be difficult for any one approach to gain any meaningful traction.
 
Therefore having a long term vision is good, taking the time to develop your short term vision is essential. Each plays a necessary role in helping you to get clear on your intent & direction.
 
The final factor in establishing a clear Vision is your Desire. You have taken the time to define success, assess what will be required to achieve it , now its time for you to decide if you are willing to commit to it. DESIRE is everything! With out the desire to do whatever it takes, overcome the inevitable obstacles that await, remain enthusiastic, be disciplined and follow through Success will continuously elude you. YOU HAVE TO WANT TO TAKE ACTION! If Desire is missing then the probability of success is significantly decreased, if not completely cancelled out.  Think I am being dramatic? 
 
Consider this, when was the last time you succeeded at a task or project you had no desire to complete? You may have completed it because you had to for work or school, but was it a success? Did you do your best work? Was it a positive experience? I bet that the answer to at least 1 of these questions is NO.
 
Ultimately,  in order to set our selves up to experience Success in a way that satisfies your spirit one must:

  1. Define Success for yourself – Forget about what others think it should look like and think about what you want it to look like in your life.

  2. Identify your intent – Having a BIG Dream is good because it helps you figure out where you want to go in the long term.  Dare to be specific and be super honest with yourself.

  3. Embrace a Direction – it is easy to do everything and hope something works. However taking some time to think about what little wins in the short term will help you get to your Big Dream is invaluable.

  4. Desire Check – Do you want to do this? Can you be committed to this course of action?

Are ready to dive in & get clear? TAKE THE PLUNGE. You have everything to gain and only fear to lose. Feel like you need help with this? Contact me!


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The Benefits of Going to a Yoga Studio....

by Awilda Rivera

originally published in Aquarius Magazine in 2016

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There are a million Yoga Magazines, Websites and Home resources these days. The availability of DIY Yoga has provided many with a low cost introduction to Yoga Asana & Philosophy.  The prevalence of these resources has created a false sense of security for those who avoid Yoga Studios like the plague. Many ask: “Why pay for a class at a Yoga Studio when I can get a Yoga YouTube video for Free?”
 
The truth is Yoga Asana can cause injury if not done properly. Over the last 10 years there has been considerable debate and discussion about the dangers of Yoga. Regardless of where you stand on the issue, one thing is undeniable: One can get hurt practicing Yoga incorrectly.
 
Any activity where you are engaging in physical movement can cause injury.  Although Yoga is low impact, the risk of injury is still present. Even the most basic Asana can injure you, if done improperly. Learning the safest way to move into & hold a Downward Dog is something that is difficult to learn from a video or magazine. One may look at a picture of a person in Downward Dog and think, “Oh that’s easy! All I have to do is put my self in a Upside Down ’V’ shape.”  However, incorrectly holding Downward dog over time can cause serious rotator cuff, elbow, wrist and shoulder problems. I am not suggesting that one must execute the pose perfectly to avoid injury, but rather that an awareness of proper alignment is essesential to a safe & sustainable Yoga Asana practice.
 
Many of you are thinking, “For $20 a class I’ll take my chances and move slowly through a FREE  Yoga video.”  I will admit initially I, too, let my opinion about how much Yoga Studio classes cost dictate how I felt about learning from a real person. I was completely opposed to paying any money to practice Yoga so I began to explore Youtube. Quickly, it became apparent that there was a wide variety of teachers & teaching styles available on the Web.
 
Left to my own devices, I risked it all as I dove into various styles. Determined to get the most out of the free internet resources I chose the most seemingly reputable teacher and practiced with the video. Lacking the guidance of a trained teacher, I forced myself into shapes, attempting to watch the computer and mimic the instructor. I was attempting to run with out knowing how to walk. Not only was I failing to get the most out of the free videos, but I also wasn’t learning anything. Ultimately, I was left with a sore wrist, achy lower back & more questions than answers about the appropriate way to practice Yoga Asana.
 
It was not until I attended my first studio classes that I became acquainted with the fundamental Yoga alignment principals through demonstration. It was invaluable to be able to watch a knowledgeable instructor perform the Asana and then have that instructor provide me with feedback about modifications that can help me achieve the posture more safely in my body.  Additionally, the instructor’s reminders to “find your edge and pull back” were critical to the process of developing physical, muscular and sensory awareness in my body.  “The most important reason a person should attend a studio class, is to learn what they should and should not be feeling in their body,” says Physical Therapist Kara Strauss.  She adds, “having an experienced teacher look at your body & provide modifications can be the difference between a safe practice and getting hurt. The cost of rehabbing an injury is exponentially greater than the cost of attending a few yoga classes to learn the basics.”
 
There is nothing wrong with saving a few bucks and cultivating an Asana home practice.  One must simply take the time to learn the basics from a knowledgeable, certified, professional so you have a strong foundation. If you lack an understanding of the fundamentals of Yoga alignment principals, and venture into the world of DIY Yoga, what you are risking could be worth more than the money you save by avoiding the studio. Spend the money & practice safe. Your body is worth it.

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10/19/2017 1 Comment

Yoga Burn out is REAL

By Awilda Rivera

This piece was originally published in July 2016 in Aquarius Magazine

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Yoga can be a mystical and enchanting love.  For some Yoga is an experience of love at first sight,  and yet others have to spend time cultivating their yoga love affair. What happens when you fall out of love? What happens when you no longer have the same zeal for the practice? When all of your favorite teachers bore you? When you no longer have the desire to practice on your own? Have you stopped loving Yoga?
 
Many Yogi’s suffer from the idea that Yoga is a panacea. I agree that Yoga produces a multitude of physical, medical and energetic benefits. However when all you do is Yoga, all the time, you can get too much of a good thing.  Yoga fatigue occurs when Yoga is your only physical practice, spiritual outlet and extra-curricular activity.
 
Space is key. In every relationship there must be space – between partners, between the creator and their art, the athlete and their sport, the professional and their craft. If there is no space then the relationship is out of balance.  When you take space form the activity, person, or behavior that you love then when you come back to it, you are able to approach it with a fresh perspective and renewed interest.
 
For 48 months I did Yoga, and only Yoga. I learned Yoga Asana, I taught Yoga, I studied Yoga text, I had Yoga meetings, I got involved with Yoga organizations – my life was consumed by Yoga.   About 5 months ago I started to lose some of my zeal for Yoga, I had too much of a good thing. I was of the strong opinion that if you practice Yoga regularly then you don’t need any other daily exercise.  Yet, I couldn’t deny that I was just not having as much fun practicing Yoga anymore. I knew I needed to take action, but the only action that came to mind was to – take a break from Yoga.
 
I sat with this deep, frightening truth.  It was beyond my comprehension that I could already be burned out.  After sitting with the reality that confronted me, I realized I needed to vary my daily physical activity; in short I needed to diversify my exercise.  Once I accepted what I was feeling, the resolution presented itself rather quickly: It was time for me to start running.  But, was I going to break up with Yoga?
 
Running is wildly different from Yoga.  I was attracted to the speed, quick satisfaction, jock culture and the challenge.  Running was like  a mistress I was cheating on Yoga with, all the time I spent running I thought about Yoga.  As I ran I would sequence my ideal Yoga class to compliment the trauma a runner’s body experiences. The more I was drawn to running the more I was called back to the mat. The space I allowed myself brought me back to the mat.
 
Allowing myself the space to be honest, take time away from yoga, and be open to other pursuits helped to reinvigorate my love of Yoga. I was able to look at the practice & its benefits through a new lens.  Yoga was no longer my only choice, but rather a foundation from which I could create an expansive, safe, varied psychical practice with avenues for spiritual exploration and energetic release.
 
Love Yoga, Love yourself, love your options.  Remember you can have too much of a good thing.  Until next month…..

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