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Yoga & Self Image: a practice for embracing the self

by Awilda Rivera

Originally published in Aquarius Magazine June 2017

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What we think about ourselves matters.  As summer winds down, we can reflect on  the pressure we place on ourselves each year for the "perfect beach body" . Bathing suits, pools & BBQs are opportunities for us to gather and beat the heat, but instead we spend the summer experiencing these moments as hot beds of anxiety. We place an incredible amount of importance on how we look and that can be difficult for anyone who struggles with Self-image.  You might be wondering: “What the heck does this have to do with Yoga?”
 
Yoga can have measurable effect on one’s ability to establish & maintain a positive self-image. One study found that “Yoga Practitioners are 20% more likely to a positive self-image as compared to the general population.”[1]    Yoga encourages one to slow down, look within, be open minded and accepting to what is happening in the now.  The presence of mind that is cultivated through the practice of marrying breath with movement has been shown to lead to:


  • Increased body awareness
  • Increased Satisfaction with Body Image
  • Decreased Self Image Criticisms[2]
 
As a result yoga has become a powerful tool for doctors who work with patients in recovery for eating disorders.  The great thing about these statistics is that you do not have to have been diagnosed with an eating disorder to begin the practice of Yoga & experience these benefits. A 2016 Yoga in America Study showed that, over 50% of Americans surveyed reported improving overall health as the reason why they started and continue to practice Yoga.[3]
 
 Here are my Three tips for finding an awesome yoga class & studio to get you loving you:

  1. Plan to visit a few studios.  Go online and look up what is available in your area, browse their website and teacher bios to get a sense of what they are about.

  2. Read the Class descriptions. Studios do a pretty good job of giving you an idea of what to expect. If you are not super physically active look for words like -   all levels , beginners, Hatha or gentle. For those of you are physically active but new to yoga look for words like – All levels, Hahta, Yin, Restorative, Yin-Vin, or Slow Flow

  3. Comfort & Safety are important.  The studio should feel like a safe space. Teacher should be helpful, warm and knowledgeable. The teacher should be able to offer you pose modifications to keep your practice safe & tailored to your needs. At the end of class feel free to ask the teacher questions about what you learned, sensations you felt in the body and how you can bring your practice home.
 
 
Yoga is about connecting deeply with your Self in the present moment and using that as platform to build strength in your body, mind & spirit.  Confidence, Positive Body-Image, Peace of Mind are all by products of the process of self discovery that Yoga helps to facilitate.  Here is a few extra tips just for the guys reading this:

  • Yoga isn’t just for chicks anymore.  In the last 5 years, the number of men practicing yoga has gone up from 4 to 10 MILLION.[4]

  • If your not sure what to make of the class descriptions, look for:  Yoga For Runners, Yin-Vin, Yin, or some studios even have Yoga for Men classes.

  • Men make up at least 30% of Yoga practitioners which means in a class of 10 you will likely have 1 or 2 other guys in there with you. [5]

  • Cool Guys Practice Yoga.  Macho men like Sting, Jon Bon Jovi, Woody Harrelson all practice yoga. Creatives like Adam Levine and Colin Ferrel are yogis.[6] Even famous athletes like Victor Cruz, Lebron James, and Kevin Garnett practice yoga. [7]
 
Male or Female, if you want to get out of your own head, connect to & love the body you’re in while you get fitter then you should consider incorporating Yoga in to your routine.  Once you find the studio and class that both challenges and empowers you, allow yourself to enjoy it. All you have to do is show up open minded ready to be present on your mat and the rest will happen organically.
 
Enjoy the adventure yogis!! Until next time….Namaste.
 

[1] http://seattleyoganews.com/yoga-in-america-2016-statistics/

[2] http://www.health.harvard.edu/staying-healthy/yoga-benefits-beyond-the-mat

[3] https://www.yogaalliance.org/Portals/0/2016%20Yoga%20in%20America%20Study%20RESULTS.pdf

[4] ibid

[5] ibid

[6] https://www.doyouyoga.com/10-famous-men-who-do-yoga-62273/

[7] http://www.stack.com/a/yoga-athletes


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9/28/2017 1 Comment

Every-body is a YOGA BODY......

by Awilda Rivera

 Originally published in May 2017 in Aquarius Magazine for the "Under the Bodhi Tree" column. Some edits have been made to this version.

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Plus Sized Yogini Jessamyn Stanely taking a strong Peacock pose on the Beach

Yoga is for every-body!  Despite the images you may see on TV, Film & Social Media there is NO right or wrong body type for yoga.  Humans love to compare, so naturally when we see skinny women in spandex leggings on TV doing handstands we think “There is no way I could do that”  or “Only if I were tiny like her then I could do all the Yoga moves.”  I must confess those were some of my first thoughts when I first stepped on the mat.
 
The Question becomes: “Does Yoga have a body image issue?”   Thankfully the answer is no. Yoga does not have a yoga body issue, however we in the west DO have a body image issue. 
 
The great news is that in the last several years there have been a handful of Phenomenal women and men who have stood up to shine a light on this ugly little secret.  The truth is that since Yoga has become a business, there has been  a ton of money poured into marketing and creation of the Yoga image. This image like all other sales avatars alienates most people and focuses on conventional ideas of beauty & strength (i.e. hetero-normative, skinny white women in fancy pants doing hands stands).  The reality of Yoga could not be more different. The postures and poses of yoga are meant to be applicable to all body types depending on the need of the individual, hence all the various modifications available for a single pose.
 
One Fearless Woman leading the  Yoga body image revolution is Jessamyn Stanley. Jessamyn is a voluptuous, queer, women of color who is smashing yoga body image stereo types left & right.  She is unafraid to acknowledge that many of the challenges facing those who have bodies out side of the culturally approved norms come from the glares & judgment of others. These stares coupled with the internal dialogue of comparison can easily prevent a first timer from ever stepping foot in a studio. However, as long as you remember why you are coming to Yoga in the first place then all the other obstacles will fall away, as Jessamyn put it ““The whole point of this practice is to burn away the parts of our lives that are built up over the years that don’t matter, and to burn that away to who you truly are.”[1] Skinny or Big, White or Black, Straight or Queer – Yoga is for  EVERY BODY. 
 
More importantly, there aren’t just two sides of the coin. The body of a yogi can land anywhere on a broad beautiful spectrum because ANYONE can practice yoga. 
Remember -- “Your body is not standing in your way[,] Only your mind is[.]” [2]
Get out there, get on your mat, and start to burn away what no longer serves you so that you can rise from the ashes like Phoenix – renewed, rejuvenated, ready to take on the world.
 
 
 Footnotes:
[1] http://www.boredpanda.com/plus-sized-yoga-jessamyn-stanley-fat-femme/

[2] http://www.boredpanda.com/plus-sized-yoga-jessamyn-stanley-fat-femme/

 

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The joy of 2: Intro to Partner & Acro Yoga

PictureDouble Down Dog, A Partner Yoga Pose
After years of flourishing in the west, the yoga family tree is growing more branches. Every year it seems a new lineage or teaching styles is developed. Each one grounded in something a little different then the last, some with vastly different teaching methods. The activity that was once deemed a solo practice has evolved into a team sport with the help of a few adventurous souls.  The partner yoga phenomena is sweeping the globe! You may be left wondering: What is Acro or Partner Yoga anyway?
 
Acro & Partner Yoga are close relatives. Partner yoga is the milder of the two. Both up the ante on the original, singular, individual asana practice we have grown to know and love.  These two styles of yoga utilize the combination of 2 or more individuals to counterbalance each other’s weight in order to sustain one grand pose.

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Partner Yoga is mostly known for poses like double down dog and double plank.

In this  pose leverage is being created by the connection between the feet and lower back of the the two yogis. When executed properly & safely the Yogi in Downward dog should be able to lift their arms off the ground. 
 
Shockingly enough, the novelty of a double down dog pales in comparison to the Wow factor of Acro Yoga .  Acro- Yoga is known for its gravity defying poses like floating bow pose.  Acro Yoga has created a marriage between acrobatics, yoga, and team work that has caught the attention of thousands of people over the last few years.

 
While these two styles are still growing in popularity nationally, you will happily find more than a few offerings for both in Atlanta. 
 
Despite what you may think, there are no height/weight/strength requirements to take an Acro or Partner yoga class.  Nor do you have to bring a partner that is your same height/weight/build in order to  participate. I once went to a partner yoga workshop with a friend who is at least 5-6 inches taller then me & weighs at least 30 pounds more than me. I am happy to report our size differential was not an obstacle at all!
 
If this all sounds way far a field, I can understand. The first time I heard about these Yoga styles I was slack jawed.  However, after experiencing it for myself I was amazed. There is a certain level of interconnectedness, synergy and unified focus that is created when you attend one of these classes with a friend, lover, or family member. You undoubtedly become closer to them, and grow more uniquely aware of your own power.
 
Interested in trying out a partner Yoga workshop in Atlanta? Check out  Nirvana Yoga Atlanta they offer Partner Yoga workshops several times a year.  Feeling acrobatic? Then visit www.AcroAtlanta.com for classes and workshops located at Intown Tumbling near old fourth ward.
 
Until Next time…. Namaste!


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The Myths & Movement....

by Awilda Rivera

Originally Published July 2016 for Aquarius Magazine in "Under The Bodhi Tree"

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There are many layers to the rich tapestry of Yoga. We have discussed the ancient philosophy, physiology and modern interpretations of Yoga.  However we have neglected to explore the Mythology of Yoga. It is not shocking that the Yogic tradition has elaborate Myths attached to the creation and naming of  many of its most notable poses.
 
Surprisingly, not all of the Myths associated with Yoga are connected to Hindu Mythology.  Some of the stories are connected to ancient ways of living, others to an understanding about nature, and some are even tied to stories of the Buddha.
 
There is a lot to learn about Yoga through these many myths. For example, it is said that Tree pose was developed to help us embody the tolerance, altruistic giving, strength and balance that  trees have symbolized to humanity since the beginning of time. [1]   Another notable myth tells of a Man who spent 3 lifetimes trying to master the Vedas[2], only to realize that he spent 3 lifetimes focused on the wrong thing.   This dedicated man had thought the best way to get close to divinity was to memorize these sacred texts; however he had failed to realize the ultimate lesson: knowledge gained and not shared helps no one. After being given the opportunity to experience a 4 lifetime, the man spent all his living years sharing the knowledge and joy of Vedas with others. Ironically at the conclusion of the 4th lifetime he was given the opportunity to avoid further reincarnation[3], yet the happiness he had experienced while sharing the knowledge was so great that he chose to continue being reborn so that he could share the knowledge with others. [4]
 
Many of the Myths are allegorical and serve to illustrate important points about life’s greater noble truths. These myths illuminate nuances about how to live  in harmony with yourself and your environment. The stories shine a light on the importance of being able to occupy a space of harmony with humility and grace, such that your peaceful presence can be an example to help others achieve the same state of existence.
 
If you are interested in reading more of the Yoga Myths, there are several excellent books in print that will provide a closer look at these incredible stories.  Here are a few books that contain many of the Yoga Myths and can help you experience yoga through this new lens:
 
  1. Myths of the Asanas, by Alana Kaivalya (mandala publishing 2010)

  2. Downward Dogs and Warriors: Wisdom Tales for Modern Yogis, By Zo Newell (Himalayan Insitute, 2007)

  3. Yoga: Immortality and Freedom (Mythos: Princeton /Bollingen Series on World Mythology) by Mircea Eliade & William R. Trask - 2009
 
The myths of Yoga offer a refreshing perspective on an ancient practice through its own narrative. Don’t take my word for it, check it out for yourself. Check out one of these awesome resources. Dive into the world of lessons learned and miraculous triumph!
 
Until Next time, Namaste y’all!

Footnotes:
[1] Myths of the Asanas, Alana Kaivalya (Mandala Publishing 2010), p. 167
[2] Vedas are sacred Hindu Texts
[3] The liberation from the cycle of reincarnation is a very significant concept in Hinduism – this liberation from the death and rebirth cycle could be compared to experience of reaching enlightenment.
[4] Kaivalya, p. 111-116



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Consider this...before booking a Yoga Retreat

by Awilda Rivera.

original published in Dec. 2016 for Aquarius Magazine in "Under the Bodhi Tree". Some edits have been made to the original artcle.

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In the last decade, the Yoga Retreat Phenomenon has taken the world by storm.  Right now, there are dozens of Yoga Retreats happening all over the globe. The benefits of a healthy yoga practice have become so widely known that people want to incorporate it into their travel plans.
 
Yoga Retreats come in many forms, from very structured to incredibly lax.  Asana classes are standard & will often be offered multiple times a day on each day of the retreat.  Opportunities for meditation will be offered either as free hours in between classes or in a more formal workshop setting. Some retreats offer exposure to additional activities like surfing, eco-tourism, and cultural immersion.  Often Breakfast will be provided, however on some retreats there are no meals included. Accommodations are always 100% factored in to retreat pricing.
 
Interested in finding the right Retreat for you?

Here are the TOP 6 THINGS TO CONSIDER when choosing your Perfect Yoga Retreat:
 
  1. Duration – Are you interested in a weekend getaway or a week escape? Knowing exactly how long you wish to be away on your retreat is essential to helping you identify what kind of a retreat will be best for you. Yoga Retreats can be anywhere from 24 hours  to 30 days long.  Identifying your ideal retreat duration will help you to eliminate a lot of trips that simply do not fit your needs.

  2. Budget – Yoga retreat pricing can vary from $500 for a weekend on Jekyll Island, to $2500 for 5 days in Morocco.  I am offering  a retreat to Nicaragua in February 2017 with packages that start at $1000. Determine your budget and stick to it,  no need to spend more then necessary and risk regretting your trip for financial reasons.

  3. Location – Beach, mountains, woods, domestic, international – the world is yours. There are retreats offered in all kinds of environments to meet a myriad of desires and needs. Think about your happy place and there is likely a yoga retreat offered there, or someplace similar.

  4. Teaching Style – Some trips focus their Asana class offerings on a particular teaching style. Make sure you read the fine print.  If what you want is a relaxing all levels yoga classes on your retreat, then you might not want to go on a Power Yoga retreat. Take some time to research the nuances of the teaching styles offered on the retreats you are considering, watch Youtube videos, ask friends, perhaps go to a studio that offers that style of yoga so that you can be sure you will enjoy what is being offered.

  5. Required vs. Optional – It is important to note if a retreat has required activities. If you are looking for a more relaxed trip then a trip where every class is required is likely not for you.

  6. Excursions & Add-Ons – Surfing, City Exploring, Hikes,  Culturally immersive Day Trips & Snorkeling are a few of the most common add-on activities for Yoga retreats. These additional activities often come at an additional cost. Package details will usually reveal what options are available for additional activities, as well as day trips and upgrades.

Ultimately, if you are looking to go on a yoga retreat there is something out there for you. I will be hosting at least two yoga retreat's a year. In 2017 I took groups on: (1)  Yoga & Surf Retreat to Nicaragua from February 18 -25, 2017, and (2)Cultural & Wellness Immersion to Cuba. In April 2018, I will be leading a group to Barbados on a Caribbean Wellness Escape - for more information visit www.AwildaRivera.com .  If your interested on what other kinds of trips are available, then you should check out websites like TripTribe.com or BookYogaRetreats.com. Enjoy your adventures, until next time yogis!


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Let Yoga Help you ride the Change Train.....

by Awilda Rivera

 Originally published in Sept. 2016 In Aquarius Magazine for her long running column "Under The Bodhi Tree" under the heading 'Yoga and Change'

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The only thing constant in life is change.  From the moment we are born  we are changing, and we are also acutely aware of all that is changing around us. Change is something that needs no catalyst - it is always happening. Over time we grow to understand that we cannot control the change:  in our society, in the behavior of others, or in nature.  The question soon becomes: “What can we control?”  Simply put,  our individual response.
 
How we respond, that is the only thing in our control. Change can cause a myriad of reactions from excitement to resistance.  Yoga is an excellent tool for anyone dealing with change, especially if your response happens to fall anywhere on the spectrum below “excited”.  Luckily, Yoga can act as a salve to help one get grounded when in the midst of change that may be overwhelming. A consistent yoga practice can provide us with several tools. It can help one keep an open perspective and create the internal flexibility needed to facilitate the cultivation of healthy future responses to change.  
 
The following Yoga practices have helped me to embrace and adapt to change better over the last few years:

  1. Simple Inversions:  such as Viparita Karani (aka Legs up the Wall) , Down Dog, or wide legged forward fold will help to shift stagnant energy from the feet back up through the body into the head. The physical act of placing the head below the heart, while in these poses, can help shift our perspective, giving us the opportunity to truly look at the potential change from another angle.

  2. Simple Twists:  such as Marichayasana (seated Sage twist) or reclined twist with bent knees can help to open up energetically clogged meridian lines in the body. Twisting will help to facilitate the release fixed views or opinions that no longer serve you – these views may be manifesting themselves as resistance to change.  (Twist are not recommended if you have a severe spine injury, back problems, during pregnancy, soon after surgery. After recent or chronic hip, knee, or shoulder injury please consult your physician before practicing yoga. )
 

  1. Back Bends: such as Baby Cobra, Cobra, or Bridge have garnered the nickname “Yoga Paxil”  because these poses are believed to be natural anti-depressants. This genre of poses help to open the chest, shoulder & abdomen. Opening the shoulders & chest allows for the physical and energetic heart to shed stagnant energy, and embrace new possibilities. (Backbends are not recommended for those who suffer from spinal stenousis or spondylolisthesis. If you have scoliosis please consult a doctor before you begin a yoga practice as backbends may also be contraindicated depending on the extent of condition)

Try incorporating these tips into your life so that you can embrace change with a new perspective, open heart, and unblocked energy flow. We can control our how we respond, and yoga can help us cultivate positive future responses to change. Until next time, Namaste....
 
 
 
 


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The Top Three Reasons you aren't practicing Yoga....

by Awilda Rivera

**This Article was Originally published as apart of Awilda's long running column in the Aquarius Magazine called -  "Under The Bodhi Tree"

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Yoga seems to have taken over the…right? We see celebrities doing it. We see Yoga in commercials, in Movies, on Billboards.  At this point everybody is on board, and riding the Yoga train, right?  Wrong.  While Yoga has gotten a lot of attention and its popularity has grown there are many people out there who still avoid Yoga at all costs. I took the time to talk to some non-yogis to investigate some of the major concerns keeping them from the mat. What I discovered was that Time, a lack of understanding, and fear of embarrassment topped the list of concerns.
 
1.   “ I Don’t have enough time”
 
 A common complaint, most American’s are used to being able to hit the gym for 30 minutes and be done for the day.  Yes, there are 90 minute Yoga classes, but you will find that many studios have moved towards the 60 minute yoga class format. In a hour long class  the time breaks down like this:  10-15 minute warm-up, 25-30 minutes of activity, and 5-10 minute cool down, 10 minute relaxation pose.  The truth is that you are only really working-out for 30 minutes, the rest of the time is warm up and cool down – an essential part to staying injury free.  As humans we make time for anything we really want to do, sometimes staying up late just to catch up on a particular show that we missed. If we want to make time for Yoga, we can, we just need to prioritize our health, well being, and peace of mind. Think about it, what do you make time for?
 
 
2.  “I am afraid of being embarrassed in front of class”
 
This is an understandable concern. Yoga is about empowerment, learning our bodies, looking within so we can work with ourselves. Of course the first time you go to a Yoga class you won’t know the poses. The movements will feel foreign in your body and it you may even feel awkward.  There is always the temptation of looking at the other students during class. The danger in looking around the room is that what may look like ‘basic’ movements in the bodies of your classmates may feel extremely challenging in your body.  ITS IMPORTANT TO REMEMBER THAT NONE OF THE OTHER STUDENTS ARE LOOKING AT YOUR FORM. The only person that is looking at you is the Yoga instructor because they need to keep you safe. Unlike a dance class or martial arts class, Yoga is free from any moments where individuals get up and do something in front of the class.  The only time the instructor is likely to speak to you directly would be to keep you safe, and would likely be in a whisper tone. Rest assured that you are safe from any danger of being “embarrassed in front of the class”.
 
 
3.  “The language and moves are overwhelming”
 
Learning new things  can be overwhelming, especially if they take you outside of your comfort zone.  Learning Yoga is like learning a new language because you are learning both a new movement vocabulary, English names for the poses, and possibly Sanskrit names of the poses.  Learning a new language takes time.  Think about your native language, as a baby it took you time to learn the words and context to speak meaningful sentences.  Let yourself learn it in pieces. The common problem with new Yogis is that they want to run before they can walk. You may want to already know the basics and be moving on to more advanced postures by week two; however, you must be patient with you body, mind and self.  Better to take your time and really learn it, rather than to rush and get injured.
 
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Don’t take my word for it! Get out there and see for yourself! The right teacher, at the right studio, just once a week can make a huge difference in your mental, emotional, and physical health.  A little adventure never hurt anyone….until next month.  Hit that mat and Nama-SLAY!

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Podcast Interviews - May /June 2017

It has been an exciting two months here at  AwildaRivera.com!! FOUR more amazing podcast interviews aired full of juicy information to help the Entrepreneur, business owner, or career professional excel at life & Business!

Here they are:

[1]Women Crafting Success w/ Melissa Mendez:
"Success Coaching, Yoga & Self Care" --

[2] Advance Your Art w/ Yuri Cutaldo:
"Do what you LOVE & LOVE what you DO"

[3] Escape the 9-5 Grind w/ ALi Salman:
"Fulfillment awaits you! Are you ready to live the life you want know!?

[4] JumbleTHINIK w/ Michael Woodward:
"Micro Goals for BIG DREAMS"

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How to Become A Time Ninja - Part 4

Multi-tasking is the ENEMY!!!!!

At this point you have read Parts 1-3 of this series, and as a result you have generated a plan of attack for the upcoming week’s tasks. The truth is that there is one last Giant to slay before you can execute & implement what you have learned and achieve your desired outcome. This Titan is known by one name: Multi-Tasking.
 
Multi-Tasking wages an assault on your Focus & Ability to Execute.
 
Success is impossible without Focus & Execution.  In our modern era, our focus is under siege.  We are constantly being bombarded by external stimuli from our cellphones, data watches, television and social media.  Not only do we have to contend with the external stimuli but we have to calm the internal stimuli so that we can harness the full productivity of the mind.
 
I know what your thinking, “Awilda you have never seen me multi-task! I can get ten things done at once with out even breaking a sweat!”  Not so, you are  risking more then you think…..
 
 
Here is the Research:
 
Science suggests that Multi-tasking can actually reduces productivity by 40%. [1]  While the brain is arguably one of our most advanced organs, it can only really focus on one thing at a time. The truth is our Brains have a finite amount of attention and if we attempt to divide that attention between several tasks,  then our brain never fully reaches the optimal zone of activity. [2]
 
Not only that but it can also cause you to make unnecessary mistakes, miss important information and cues.  Multitasking has also been show to effect short term & working memory such that problem solving & creativity can be hindered. [3]
 
 
I know your thinking: “Well how bad could it really be?” One study found that the act of multi-tasking, especially in men, had the effect of lowering the subjects IQ. 
If it lowered your IQ 1 or 2 points,  I wouldn’t even mention this side effect; however, one study showed that Multitasking lowered the subjects IQ by 15 points!!!  As a result multi-tasking effectively reduced the subjects intellectual processing ability to the level of an 8 year old child! [4]
 
Doctor Adam Gazzaley,  discovered an interesting correlation between Multi-tasking and decline in working memory. One might dismiss the study with the notion that the more we do the more we have to remember; however, Dr. Gazzaley notes, “findings suggest that the negative impact of multitasking on working memory is not necessarily a memory problem, per se, but the result of an interaction between attention and memory.”[5]
 
The truth is to be successful we want to minimize the number of times we have to come back to a particular tasks. The quicker we can knock out a specific task the quicker we can accomplish the true success we seek.
 
 
CLEARLY….
 
Multi-tasking is the enemy.  Thankfully you have already learned the tactics in the first 3 parts of this series to SLAY THE MULTI-TASKING DRAGON!! I want to share one last tip with you that can really help you to stay the course and avoid slipping back into this dangerous and productivity zapping habit.
 
 
The O.H.I.O Method --
 
O.H.I.O. stands for “Only Handle it Once”.  Now this does not mean you are going to finish each task in one fell swoop the first time you undertake it.  Instead this method helps to underscore all of the previous skills you have learned through out this series.
 
The goal is that each task you intend to work on during a given day has the: only handle it once rule, applied to it.  Even if you only plan to spend 30 minutes on a particular task, make sure that is a consecutive & uninterrupted 30 minutes.  The O.H.I.O. method helps us remember why we are operating under a singular focus in the moment. It also helps to prevent us from trying to divide our attention and compromise our productivity.  
 
Once you are done with a task for the day you, you can move on to the next task with confidence & peace of mind.  
 
Now that you have an arsenal of secret weapons to help you stay on Task and maximize your efficiency, YOU HAVE OFFICIALLY BECOME A 1st Degree TIME NINJA!!!
 
Remember these tools are always available to you here at www.AwildaRivera.com. Feel free to comeback to the site and review these concepts as often as you need to, share the information with your friends, and apply the tips to how you operate. You will definitely see an increase in efficiency, productivity, and task completion.
 
Did you miss Parts 1-3?  Check out the whole series here!

THANKS FOR READING!!! Until Next time you TIME NINJAS!!!

xo,
Awilda Rivera, JD CC RYT-200



[1] http://www.apa.org/research/action/multitask.aspx

[2] http://www.health.com/health/gallery/0,,20707868,00.html#you-re-not-really-multitasking-0

[3] http://www.health.harvard.edu/blog/multitasking-a-medical-and-mental-hazard-201201074063

[4] https://www.forbes.com/sites/travisbradberry/2014/10/08/multitasking-damages-your-brain-and-career-new-studies-suggest/#681deefb56ee (citing University of London Study)

[5] https://www.ucsf.edu/news/2011/04/9676/ucsf-study-multitasking-reveals-switching-glitch-aging-brain

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How to become a Time Ninja --- Part 3

Welcome back to AwildaRivera.com for the third installment of the Time Ninja Series. In Part 2 we unpacked the difference between urgent & important. Part 2 also shared 3 questions you should always ask yourself when creating your task chronology.  Interested in Catching up? Click Here to check out the Infographic,  as well as Part 1 & Part 2 of this series.
 
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PLAN – SCHEDULE - EXECUTE.
 
Now that you know how to Identify the important component tasks associated with your Goal, and how to attack them chronologically, it is IMPERATIVE that you understand how to get them DONE. The trick to becoming a Time Ninja is SCHEDULING.   I know some of you are out there thinking, “I heard of plan and execute, but how did schedule make it into the mix?”
 
Scheduling is your secret weapon! A plan that fails to be scheduled cannot be efficiently executed. An attempt to execute with out a schedule fails to maximize the plan.
 
The great news is that by this point in the series you have: (1) a plan, (2) you know the tasks you need to execute, and (3) and you know the order you need to execute them in. HOWEVER, you may have no idea how long a task will take to complete.  GUESS WHAT? That’s perfectly fine! As you become more familiar with the types of tasks you need to undertake in your business these activities will either become easier, you will outsource them, or you will develop another approach.
 
Here are 5 Tips to help you Schedule Your plan so that you can Successfully accomplish your Tasks:

1. Decide how long each task will take
  • Give yourself a honest estimation of how much time it might take you to complete the task
  • Once you have determined how long it will take you to complete the task, break the length of time into smaller chunks (i.e. 15 or 30 min blocks)

2. Plan you week in advance and look at the time you have available to work on your goal related activities
  • Look at how many chunks of time you need to complete a specific tasks now that you have broken them up into 15 or 30 minute blocks
  • Examine the time you have available in your week to attack the project chunks in a chronological and practical way

3. Schedule the time to work on these tasks into your electronic or paper planner with 5-10 minute buffers book-ending each period of time
  • WRITE IT DOWN!! The point is to create a system that becomes second nature and maximizes your efficiency. DON’T TRY TO KEEP IT ALL IN YOUR HEAD.

4. Review your planner each night and review what you have in the day ahead
  • You can not be prepared if you don’t have any idea what the next day holds.
  • ALWAYS review your planner the night before for schedule changes and important meetings.

5. COMMIT TO EXECUTING WHILE BEING FLEXIBLE
  • Focus on getting it done
  • Be realistic about how much time you have allotted and allow yourself the room to lengthen or shorten the time
  • Follow the plan you created with a little variation as possible.

In a Nut Shell --

Plan to be prepared or be prepared to fail. Things are always going to come up, you must have a strong  foundation with the systems and routines in place that will continue to encourage your growth.  If you are struggling with getting things done, give this new system a try. Remember that once you Identify what needs to be done, you can prioritize the tasks and create a chronology of activity. You can then use that chronology to Plan - Schedule - Execute on the completion of the tasks.


Until next time guys..... Keep your eyes peeled for Part 4 of this series! 

 
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HOW TO BECOME A TIME NINJA -- PART 2

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IMPORTANCE  IS THE KEY.
 
 
Welcome back to AwildaRivera.com!! I am super stocked to share Part 2 of the TIME NINJA series with you. In part one we covered how to create Goals and identify the relevant tasks or projects associated therewith. Part 2 will address how to prioritize those tasks in a strategic way so that their completion creates momentum.
 
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We have all had the thought “I know what to do, but I have absolutely no idea where to start”, this thought can be paralyzing.  However, if the way to achieve Success is through constant intentional action, then one can not afford to become paralyzed and take no action. 
 
GOOD NEWS
– I have a few questions you can ask yourself that can help you to not only prioritize your tasks, but also facilitate the completion of those tasks in a logically progressive manner.
 
BUT FIRST – You need to Understand the difference between Urgent & Important.
 
Putting out fires, thinking on your feet and getting things done in a bind are all apart of the cost of doing Business in 2017. The issue is that those things all fall into the urgent category. Humans are really good at understanding when things are urgent and taking corrective action, for example:
 
  • going to the Doctor when you wake up with a Fever, 
  • Getting Gas when the like is blinking in your car,
  • Filing your taxes the day before the deadline to avoid a penalty,
  • Fixing a Email Marketing glitch that just sent all your subscribers the same email 3 times.
 
Unfortunately Humans are also really good at putting things off that are not Urgent. Now of course there are things that should be put off until later like catching up on House of Cards, Cleaning your Sneakers, or finishing that book your Father recommended because they are neither important nor relevant to accomplishing your Goal.  HOWEVER, when examining the importance of tasks related to the accomplishment of your Goal you should ask yourself these 3 questions:
 
1.  Does the completion of this activity help me make material progress towards
     my goal?



  • Be honest with yourself here! You need to be clear about what is going to help you make the progress you desire. When you are clear about what you need to do then you are more likely to avoid wasting a ton of time on tasks that are not going to move the needle forward.  If the task is not going to help you move towards your Goal then table it for a later date.

  • Your brain will also begin to narrow down the list of tasks you generated through the exercises in part one of this series to a leaner group of activities. The tasks that remain have been determined by you to be the most likely to help you make tangible & immediate progress towards your goal.

2.    Does this activity have the potential to become urgent?

  • We have already established that when Things become Urgent Humans pay attention. However it’s the tasks that we have determined to be Important but have very little prospect of ever becoming Urgent that we have to make a special effort to prioritize. If  we fail to make the important items a priority then we run the risk of making very little to no progress towards our Goal  because we are focused on urgent or irrelevant matters.

3. Does this activity require that I complete other tasks prior to getting started?
 
  • ALWAYS ASK YOURSELF THIS 3rd Question!! The answer you generate will help to start to create a logical order of operations for the narrowed list of tasks.

  • Creating a task accomplishment order  will help you to build momentum from one task to the next, as the prior task is necessary for the execution of the present activity.

 
In a NUT SHELL --
Any task that causes you to answer “Yes” to question 1 is DEFINITELY IMPORTANT. You must be proactive!  Its imperative to address any tasks that have the potential to become Urgent in a timely fashion so that you can avoid having to spend time putting out unnecessary fires.  Lastly, having a clear understanding of the nature of the task is essential to creating an effective strategic plan for the chronology of activity. 

Until next time guys..... Keep your eyes peeled for Part 3 of this series! 

 
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4/25/2017 0 Comments

How to Become a Time Ninja -- Part 1

You can’t control Time
 
There is always so much to do, especially if you are an Entrepreneur or Career Professional.  At one time or another we have all had the following thought, “there is just not enough time in the day.”  We are all guilty of trying to control time. Click here for Original InfoGrpahic.
 
News Flash:  TIME CAN NOT BE CONTROLLED.  
 
Scary thought? Take a deep breath… I am here to tell you that you never have to worry about trying to control time ever again!  The first step to becoming a Time Ninja is to understand one noble truth – Tasks can be managed, time can not.
 
Unfortunately most people utilize “to-do” list to manage their tasks. The main issue with ‘to-do’ lists is the absence of structure. The trouble with most humans is that we tend to lump personal, professional & life tasks together on the same ever expanding ‘to do’ list. Since Tasks are the activities that you assign to yourself on a daily basis we must have a checks & balance system through which we screen these tasks before they get added to the list.  Goals are great rubrics through which we can measure our tasks. We should be mostly focused on completing tasks that move us close to achieving our stated goals.
 
In order to become a Time Ninja you must be able to identify and categorize your tasks based on your current goals. Here are 4 tips that will help you with get a handle on your task list:

  1. Establish one overall goal for the next week. Its focus can be personal or professional, it is important however that the week’s goals is in alignment with your overall vision for your professional development, financial growth and personal balance. If you are already working towards a particular goal this quarter then use that goal to generate a micro goal for the week ahead. (not sure how to establish one goal for the week? CLICK HERE FOR the WEEKLY GOAL WORKSHEET

  2.  Place 3 minutes on a timer & list all the tasks you know would help you make tangible progress towards the goal. Allow the tasks to flow, don’t judge or censor them. Write the entire time, until the buzzer sounds. Once the brainstorm is complete separate the tasks you generate into the following categories: Personal, Professional & Other.

  3.  Examine the Tasks in each list. Place 30 seconds on the clock & mark the 2
     tasks in each category that will result in the most progress towards your overall goal for the week.

  4. Create short list of the 6 tasks that you identified. These are the tasks you should focus on completing this week.

Give your self 20 mins & get after it…the more you practice identifying and categorizing your tasks the easier it  will be for you to prioritize in strategize in  Part 2!!
 
 
[STAY TUNED FOR PART 2 ---  How to Prioritize & Strategize]


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How to Become a Time Ninja.....InfoGraphic

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Slackers Welcome....

On April 18, 2017, I had the pleasure of being a guest on the NEW & NOTEWORTHY Podcast: Slacking Ambition. 

I had a blast recording this interview! The host Matt Wells & I  tackle topics such as Goal Alignment, Procrastination & How to get stuff done!  There are a ton tips & tools in this podcast for the motivated, go-getter who is ready to seize success but sometimes feel overwhelmed or lost. STAY CALM... YOU GOT THIS!  Good news I am here to help, so just give this podcast a listen....

​Media player not working? I got your back!  Check out the links below! 
  • CLICK HERE to Listen to the podcast &  Download it 

  • CLICK HERE to Get the Show Notes

Until Next time....

xo
Awilda
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4/6/2017 0 Comments

Podcast Guest Appearances March 2017

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PROJECTS, PERSONAS & Practical Methods to succeed ----

This month I had the honor of not only doing one but TWO interviews with the incomparable Dr. Gonzalez of  the acclaimed EntHead podcast. We tackled some of the Hot Topics in Entrepreneurship, namely (1) Project & Task management for Business Growth, AND (2) How to present an authentic persona on Social Media that helps you build credibility & trust.

If you are constantly feeling like you are in the weeds, and the To-Do list keeps piling up then you would probably benefit from listening to this interview: 
  •  Tackling tasks and Projects for business growth  

If you are struggling with getting yourself rooted in a real way and presenting your most authentic self on social media then the episode on Social Media is a great resource --- 
  • Socially..... stick to what you know so You Grow!!!

ENJOY!! If you are wondering whats next in May my guest spots on Women Crafting Success and the NomadTogether podcast will be airing, with a ton of great tips to help you on your Professional and Personal Growth Journey

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